Hi again...
Saturdays are always lazy for me....not only that its the day of no work but also of no food ('coz i'm too lazy to go out to get food) and also no bath... :))) the last one is a must...other wise, it wont be a true saturday for me...
so, here i'm, in front of you typing some usual crap (and ofcourse, trying hard to put in some sense in what ever i type ;))
well,the reason i got down to writing now is that i wanted to share with you some of my wisdom about life...
off late, I have thinking so much about life and the various things around it that i have sort of developed a small theory :)))
And as you know, no theory will be complete without a punch line..so, here it is :

(For a bachelor) if you want to really live your life, then either have a Girl or a Goal !!!

Come on....don't laugh..I'm serious about that.. ok..let me explain..
you are said to be alive if you constantly grow and are conscious about your growth...this does not necessarily mean physical..it could be mental growth as well...and beyond all this, the most important thing is that you have to feel the liveliness in your life..this is most important..
what i seriously feel is that if you dont have any of the above two, then, your life becomes too insipid to have it any more..
while having goal is a constructive engagement, where in you try to live up to the goal and there by, bringing some sort of physical and mental maturity throught out the process, i would say having a girl is more of a non-constructive engagement...agreed it makes your life different each day you live, but apart form that, you dont really have much of a direct benefit from that..ofcouse, i'm not trying to tone down the importance of such an engagement..it's more of a companion for you through out your ups and downs and (for some) might be the sole reason for living...in whatever way you take it..the reason why i put it as a non-constructive is that it does not (at least, directly) bring some sort of mental maturity and increase your wisdom....hmm...is that true????
What i exactly mean is that a girl does not make you a rocket scientist or a management guru...ofcourse,there can be a lot of indirect influence and at times, much more stronger than the goal it self but the way i look at it is that no matter how much ever the influence might be, it can start only as a goal and not as an influence...and even if it appears to start from an inspiration, there should be a goal indeed..its simple..i wont try becoming a Nobel laureate just because my girl frnd wants me to be one...
more than all, its the drive thats with in me that might push me....
ofcourse, this is very much a personal opinion and this might vary from person to person..
well, need to do some cleaning stuff..
shall c u later..
luv